Fifteen years later I was in graduate school and teaching my first section of composition at a large public university in the Midwest, and I was wondering how to get my students to participate in class discussions.
I empathized with their reluctance to speak up. In my own undergraduate years, I had managed to get away with remaining silent in nearly every course, avoiding my professor's eye while writing down words like "hegemony" and "liminal" and scurrying home later to look up their definitions. I had learned that being a good student meant being quiet and deferential, and I found encouragement to speak up in class confusing and a little scary. Wasn't the teacher the teacher? What did I have to say? I now suspected that my students, who were mostly from rural, working-class backgrounds similar to my own, might be feeling the same way.
We need to see first-generation students as the pioneers they are. In the 1990s, I wrote an essay that called the experiences of blue-collar academics "border crossing," with a foot in each camp or class. First-generation students not only cross the class border but can translate cultures, too. We shouldn't expect them to choose between their past and the promise of the future, or make them ashamed of where they come from.
I remember looking scornfully at my parents (a unionized communications worker and a receptionist) as they had a conversation with my undergraduate mentor at graduation. I was afraid they would embarrass me. I still can see the look on my father's face go from pure pride to sadness, and the shame of that moment is still fresh.
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Ellen Goodman is one of the formidable journalists of the past thirty years. A leading sydicated columnist and Pulitzer winner, Goodman spends more of her time writing about social change in America. Intriguingly, she refuses to call herself a pundit. The following was from a recent lecture at the Milton Academy in Massachusetts.
Life is not a straight line; you will continually be changing while you prepare yourself at the same time. We need to remember the way real life works. You make plans, you have accidents; you move straight ahead, you take a detour; you screw up, you recover; you try hard, you get lucky; you carefully make a five-year plan, you succeed because you improvise. You keep on proposing and recomposing your life.