Updating the speech / language concern noted above, I found out when I took Jacob to see a neurologist in Dec., 2003, (Jacob aged 3years, 11months) that Jacob has auditory short term memory difficulties; he forgets how to say the word before he has mastered it. It is a form of dispraxia. We now need to work around this for his speech to develop - it wasn't that the genetic opportunity with language was lost, though that is still a possibility, but appears to be more a
short term memory problem with remembering how to express new words. Our entire strategy for his speech development would have been very, very different. The importance of speech repetition would have been emphasised a lot, lot, lot more. Take note with your own kids - there are many who have kids with Down Syndrome who don't have the short term auditory memory problem, so they can say this or that speech strategy worked for them and that you should use their speech strategy, but it wont necessarily work for your kid with Down Syndrome.