i struggle before sunrise
to be ready for the day.
“The place I grew up was a grey unfeeling nothing. Then one day I heard your voice [singing] and I knew for the first time that there was beauty in the world.”
~ Endeavor Morse, Endeavor, S1E1 Pilot
Time passes and life just goes. Good things are happening. I’m slowly but surely loving the life I’m living right now.
In less than 5 months I will be done with my undergraduate degree. It has taken me almost 8 years to complete. There was a time when I didn’t think I would be this close to completing my degree.
To say that I’m happy would be an understatement. It’s more than a piece of paper to me, it’s a symbol that I’m a functional person. I no longer define myself as a mental patient because school have allowed me to develop a new identity- no pun intended :)
A month or so ago (?), I said to myself/my brain, “Look, I want to remember. I want to process this stuff and move on with my life.” I asked whatever part of me is blocking to step aside.
I have already written about this, but I expected something like movie reel memories. I knew they would be difficult, but I guess I thought it would be sort of like watching them on a screen. There would be feelings involved, of course (ew, yuck, not FEEEEEEEEELINGS), and they would be painful, but hey, at least I’d know what was going on. I’d have my neat, tidy memories and I’d figure out how to unwrap them, process them, and then let them go.
Oh, how naive!