“I’ve been in these groups for the past 30 years,” she began …
… and in an instant, I felt as if someone had opened my eyes.
Just think about it.
Thirty years.
At that moment, I knew what my goal in life was going to be: I was going to get well.
I used to help people out of obligation, because my upbringing was very full of that. I had to do certain things because you were obligated to or else it would make the abuser look bad. And you didn’t want to do that.
So it was only very recently that I have been able to move out of that.