So here's my multi-step process. Bookmark the website associated with the bookmarklet (in the case of my urlTea bookmarklet I bookmarked urltea.com). Then click on your new bookmark so that it gathers the proper icon from the site and looks all pretty. Meanwhile, drag the bookmarklet to the toolbar. (Ok, I know you can't do this "meanwhile," but it sounded good.) Now view the properties of the bookmarklet, copy the javascript in the "location" box, and then paste it into the "location" box of the now-former bookmark to the site. Now you can delete the un-beautiful bookmarklet because, well, you don't need two bookmarklets, do you?
My last step is to enclose the names of my bookmarklets in square brackets. This way I can tell at a glance which buttons do something and which are simply bookmarks.
