Taijin kyofusho
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(According to Wikipedia)
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Taijin kyofusho is a Japanese culture-specific syndrome. The term taijin kyofusho literally means the disorder (sho) of fear (kyofu) of interpersonal relations (taijin). Dr. Shoma Morita described the condition as vicious cycle of self examination and reproach which can occur in people of hypochondriacal temperament.
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Possible Purpose for Hikkikomoris: Evolutionary Design
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Bullshit theory time. Suppose there’s an evolutionary advantage to this: namely, it counteracts excessive nurturing.
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Parents typically encourage their offspring, and do not always provide a realistic assessment of their abilities. Their desire is to see the child grow up and pass on their traits to another generation.
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Lists of Negativity directed at Hikkikomoris: - A Hikikomori StopGap
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http://anonarchive.hikiculture.com/contentpane.php?thread=362
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http://anonarchive.hikiculture.com/contentpane.php?thread=352
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Dark Side of Home Schooling or The Real Side of Isolation? - A Hikikomori StopGap
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From the notable comments in a topic asking: “what do your family or people that live with you think about the way you live? did they do something about it like breaking your computer or stuff like that?”
http://anonarchive.hikiculture.com/contentpane.php?thread=366
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I’ve known a couple of people who’ve been through that. That could fuck anyone up. Do they have reasons for this which make any kind of sense? Do they realize they’re mortal, and at some point, you’ll have to be on your own?
Where I’m at (US), homeschooled has come to mean “I’m extremely religious and believe schools will pollute my child’s brain with ideas with which I disagree.” Was the case with you?
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Hikkikomori as a Spiritual Interpretation - A Hikikomori StopGap
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Moving ahead…
My accusations of trolling can simply be summed in one sentence:
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Not only has the theme been used by trolls in the past before but it’s basically a post without much meat to it and is entirely based on copy-pasting and quoting Lao-Tzu.
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Edward George Ruddy died today! - A Hikikomori StopGap
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Edward George Ruddy was the Chairman of the Board of the Union Broadcasting Systems, and he died at eleven o’clock this morning of a heart condition, and woe is us! We’re in a lot of trouble!
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So. A rich little man with white hair died. What has that got to do with the price of rice, right? And *why* is that woe to us? Because you people, and sixty-two million other Americans, are listening to me right now.
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Why did I create this micro-blog? - A Hikikomori StopGap
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Author’s Note: I originally intended this to be part of an About Me section but as I would soon find out, this is too long and most themes don’t support long info sections. The theme I originally preferred, Heather River’s Box Factory, allowed for this but as a blogger with little technical know how, I didn’t really know how to copy-paste basic widgets like tag clouds into it since there wasn’t any sidebar on the theme.
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Once upon a time, rumors started of AnonIB shutting down.
One topic spoke of developing a script to back-up the contents. Another person suggested moving to imageboard4free.
On my part, my decision to scrape the contents of the entire board was suddenly put on a strict deadline.
Not soon after that, accusations of trolling started against me.
My replies to random topics became the focus of the threads and soon topics I randomly posted in ended up becoming hijacked.
Eventually these little things added up and convinced me to pursue a different way of online communication.
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Links to English Hikkikomori Discussion Boards - A Hikikomori StopGap
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http://www.anonib.com/hikikomori/
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- Possibly at risk of being abandoned as of this bookmark. - on 2009-10-13
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I don't have to tell you things are bad. Everybody knows things are bad.
Quote from the 1976 Movie "Network"
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It’s a depression!
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Everybody’s out of work or scared of losing their job. The dollar buys a nickel’s work, banks are going bust, shopkeepers keep a gun under the counter. Punks are running wild in the street and there’s nobody anywhere who seems to know what to do, and there’s no end to it.
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Short Attention Spans with regards to Technology - Does it really exist? - A Hikikomori StopGap
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This is just a re-blogging of the same post I made in DC.
Source: http://www.donationcoder.com/Forums/bb/index.php?topic=20106.0
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At first, I didn't post this because I felt the content I wrote (especially without any answers), was insufficient and unrelated to Hikkikomoris.
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The Talent Myth
An article using Enron as it's basis for why companies fail.
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- Five years ago, Dweck did a study at the University of Hong Kong, where all classes are conducted in English. She and her colleagues approached a large group of social-sciences students, told them their English-proficiency scores, and asked them if they wanted to take a course to improve their language skills. One would expect all those who scored poorly to sign up for the remedial course. The University of Hong Kong is a demanding institution, and it is hard to do well in the social sciences without strong English skills. Curiously, however, only the ones who believed in malleable intelligence expressed interest in the class. The students who believed that their intelligence was a fixed trait were so concerned about appearing to be deficient that they preferred to stay home. “Students who hold a fixed view of their intelligence care so much about looking smart that they act dumb,” Dweck writes, “for what could be dumber than giving up a chance to learn something that is essential for your own success?”
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- Five years ago, Dweck did a study at the University of Hong Kong, where all classes are conducted in English. She and her colleagues approached a large group of social-sciences students, told them their English-proficiency scores, and asked them if they wanted to take a course to improve their language skills. One would expect all those who scored poorly to sign up for the remedial course. The University of Hong Kong is a demanding institution, and it is hard to do well in the social sciences without strong English skills. Curiously, however, only the ones who believed in malleable intelligence expressed interest in the class. The students who believed that their intelligence was a fixed trait were so concerned about appearing to be deficient that they preferred to stay home. “Students who hold a fixed view of their intelligence care so much about looking smart that they act dumb,” Dweck writes, “for what could be dumber than giving up a chance to learn something that is essential for your own success?”
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In a similar experiment, Dweck gave a class of preadolescent students a test filled with challenging problems. After they were finished, one group was praised for its effort and another group was praised for its intelligence. Those praised for their intelligence were reluctant to tackle difficult tasks, and their performance on subsequent tests soon began to suffer. Then Dweck asked the children to write a letter to students at another school, describing their experience in the study. She discovered something remarkable: forty per cent of those students who were praised for their intelligence lied about how they had scored on the test, adjusting their grade upward. They weren’t naturally deceptive people, and they weren’t any less intelligent or self-confident than anyone else. They simply did what people do when they are immersed in an environment that celebrates them solely for their innate “talent.” They begin to define themselves by that description, and when times get tough and that self-image is threatened they have difficulty with the consequences. They will not take the remedial course. They will not stand up to investors and the public and admit that they were wrong. They’d sooner lie.
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To Developers: A well-designed, usable software should not need a help file
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►Posted by dan7000◄
I’d go farther than that. I think that well-designed, usable software should not need a help file. If someone needs to look at the help file then they are experiencing a flaw in your design. (I know this is an impossibly high standard - but it’s an ideal that developers should shoot for.)
It sounds like GemX has been hearing the same questions over and over about how to use their software. When that happens, the last thing they should say is “look at the help file.” The fact that lots of people can’t figure out how to use the software should make them say:
“we know this is an issue with the software, and we are redesigning that feature to make it more obvious how to use it. Can you tell us exactly how you thought the feature would work?” -
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For software which implement a known concept, I think this is possible.
But when something is really innovative, when it does not resemble some other well-known app, or when it is a cross between 2 or more apps, then, some form of documentation, start-up guide, etc. is essential.
So many of my users were baffled at first, and after talking, reading, thinking, one day they say: Aha! now I see the light. Everything becomes simple, clear, predictable… and powerful. But until that light gets turned on, because it is an unusual concept, users need help.
A worker requires training to use a new tool unless (1) the tool is very simple, or (2) he’s been trained on something very similar. - 3 more annotations...
Why Less Is More And How To Unlock the Web
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Features, I’ve recently come to realize, can be obstacles. Problems. The more powerful an application is, the more specialized it is, and thus with increased power its intended audience shrinks, and ironically, it becomes more, not less, vulnerable to competition.
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Add Sticky NoteSpecialization, traditionally, is a good thing. But, as Alexander Bard and Jan Söderqvist argue in their Netocracy, those who overspecialize will not do very well in the age of the Internet. Want to succeed? Be influential in as many important networks as possible, they argue.
- Netocracy was a term invented by the editorial board of the American technology magazine Wired in the early 1990s. A play on the words internet and aristocracy, netocracy refers to a perceived global upper-class that bases its power on a technological advantage and networking skills, in comparison to what is portrayed as a bourgeoisie of a gradually diminishing importance. - on 2008-10-15
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In Defense of Piracy
The article is nothing to write home about but I like how many of the comments elevate their reasoning beyond just "copyright failed"
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there's a lot of academic work that's out of print and should be made available without finding the son of the deceased widow to pay a royalty to see a monograph on Hungarian social reform in the 1930s.
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By chance I happened to be present, on another case, when the last last piece of the endless Napster litigation was presented in Federal District Court here in San Francisco. When it was all over, six lawyers in their 50's and a judge even older sat around and grinned at each other, as though they had all accomplished something wonderful.
It was like watching the Queen of Hearts play croquet in Alice in Wonderland. Are college kids now paying for all their music, after all the endless hearings and unbelievable expenses of the Napster litigation? No one is pirating music any more? What exactly was accomplished? Aside from fattening the bank accounts of countless attorneys, and wasting hours of the Court's time, it's hard to figure out.
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Why is it so important to remove the bullet?
It's not.
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In umpteen movies and TV shows that we have all seen, when someone is shot, the first thing that anyone giving them aid is concerned with is "getting the bullet out" - usually followed by a painful extraction of the projectile before any other first aid is applied. Why is this?
You often hear about people who survived gunshot wounds who still have slugs inside them, right? So in the movies, is this done sheerly for dramatic effect, or is there any basis in reality for the urgency of removing the bullet? Is there any pressing need to remove the bullet from a shooting victim that trumps the need to stop bleeding, disinfect the wound, et. c?
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Sheer dramatic effect. Field surgery, in which a bullet is removed, sans anesthetic, usually with alcohol poured on the wound, and then the deformed bullet is dropped into a handy bowl, is just good drama, even if it is nothing like how wounds are actually tended to in the real world.
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Benefits of Being Scared - How to use fear to your advantage
A decent albeit basic alternative article to all the other ones teaching you "How to Overcome Fear".
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Most people don't like feeling fear especially around relationships, job, health etc. In today's anxiety-saturated world where politicians, television and other media traffic in fear, it's easy to start consciously choosing to ignore fear, to talk yourself out of it. Fear, like pain, is a strong signal from the brain that something is wrong. It's important to run your fear through a quick examination instead of shutting it out.
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Is your fear reasonable?
If you're about to step into your office parking garage and you have a sudden surge of fear in your gut - don't ignore it. Our senses pick up things that we aren't consciously aware of through psychic ability, intuition or pure animal instinct. Ignore a gut feeling of danger to your peril. This type of fear should always be acknowledged, acted upon and respected. - 4 more annotations...
Can a bullet fired into the air kill someone when it comes down?
Short answer: yes
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Dear Cecil:
Every so often you see it on the news: streets full of Middle Eastern men indiscriminately firing guns straight up into the air. If I learned anything from physics class, it's that what goes up must come down. I'm certain the returning projectiles don't float harmlessly to earth and wonder how often they plunge into bystanders. -
How dangerous is this really? The question is controversial. Let me lay it out point by point.
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Patience is a Virtue - Tips for when you need it most!
Some very practical and sound advises on how to gain patience
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Recognize and surrender
So many of us are impatient because we're spoiled, writes Life Coach Neil Fiore in his book Awaken Your Strongest Self: Break Free of Stress, Inner Conflict, and Self-Sabotage. We become rash and annoyed because we want things our way and right away; we often hurry in a bid to control our lives, or the outcomes of our actions. But by doing this we limit our identity to a small, insecure, anxious part of ourselves.Staying stuck in this small, limited part means that we have failed to expand our sense of self. We can tap into a larger wiser self that can plan, soothe, and choose what to do in any given situation, says Fiore.
"To cultivate patience we must learn to accept the limits of our control -- doing what we can but allowing the world to respond," says Fiore. In other words we have to surrender and realize that we don't have power over everything. And that's okay.
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Listen
Before putting yourself forward, be sure you understand your circumstances. Listen to what others have to say. And listen to your higher self. Don't be so quick to react. Respond instead. Patience involves holding back a hasty reply to someone and accepting the differences in others. Use internal strength to calm yourself rather than let something or someone get the better of you. Really, what's the point? If you look at the bigger picture, the situation is probably not worth your salt. - 4 more annotations...
Get inspired by: Richard Branson
An article detailing the struggle and determination of Richard Branson
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For those of you who haven’t heard of Richard Branson before, he is an exceptional entrepreneur and the founder of the Virgin group of companies. Business life for Richard Branson started at the age of 17 when he started to publish a magazine Student. He aimed high: he chased down Mick Jagger, John Lennon and the likes to get interviews, he phoned major companies to sell advertisements, and he targeted a nationwide audience. It took a year or so to take off, but he succeeded. Student magazine eventually lead to a music record mail ordering business, music shops, a studio and eventually the Virgin Music record label.
Richard did not stop there, Virgin Music has reinvented itself over and over. At first is was a record label with a hippy image (Mike Oldfield’s Tubular
Bells was the big breakthrough), but after signing the Sex Pistols this image changed. After this Phil Collins, Peter Gabriel, Sting, Janet Jackson, The Rolling Stones and many many others were signed by Virgin. In the meantime though Richard got a bit “bored” as he lost the challenge in the game of contracting another pop group. So he started an airline to compete against British Airways. To cut a long story short, he succeeded in running it successful, despite the dirty tricks from BA and despite the fact that he “lost” Virgin Music in the process. Nowadays, Virgin has a wide variety of companies, and they target markets where customers are getting a raw deal, or where there is a market dominance by one or two players.
Last week I finished his autobiography Losing My Virginity
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Richard repeats several times that his life’s motto is to “Live life to the full”. Somewhere in the book, when he describes an argument between some of the key people at Virgin he states the following: “My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to rise above them.”. This is true for him from a business perspective (starting in a business and competing heads-on with BA or Coca Cola definitely comply to that), but also from a personal perspective (doing several record attempts at crossing the Atlantic by boat and balloon).
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