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Aug
23
2010

  • Step 1: Think. Next time you approach something new, think of it as an experiment. Be curious, with a healthy sense of detachment. A scientist would say "I don't know, let's see what happens," and so can you! 

    Step 2: Try. Decide what you will try in your experiment. Challenge yourself to do something you might not have done before. Think about how will you measure success. How will you enjoy the journey in addition to the outcome? 

    Step 3: Learn. Observe what happens and learn from it. The final outcome might be different from your measurement of success. Expect to be surprised.

  • Step: 1: (Think) You are going to a party and only know a few people. So you will try talking to three new partygoers. 

    Step 2: (Try) You will try only asking questions, and steering the conversation back to the other person. You will be Sherlock Holmes - curious dectective in search of each person's passion (everyone has one). 

    Step 3: (Learn) Were people willing to answer any questions? Were you able to engage people? Did you find you were surrounded all night? Was it hard to think of questions?

Aug
12
2010

  • This only makes sense if you place a high value on mobility.

    Many people value putting down roots and committing to a city or neighborhood. This often comes from having many tangled connections to other people.

    My life isn't just about me anymore. It's about my wife, kids, and our extended family. If we were to move around a lot, each move would require the whole family to change their lifestyles, as opposed to just one person.

    Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of nomadic families, but they are more rare than nomadic individuals because of the increased complexity.

    For those of us who aren't as passionate about the

    nomadic
    nomadic lifestyle, settling down makes sense. And, if you're going to settle down, ownership is the way to go, especially of your house.

    A great neighborhood is worth a lot of money. Good neighbors, good schools, good transit to work, and so on. If you're renting a house which provides those things, the idea that a landlord can take it all away isn't pleasant.

Feb
24
2010

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