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Don?t Confuse Me with the Facts!
You can't 'fix' the midlife transition, even by 'fixing' yourself. It takes a depth of understanding, appreciation, and awareness.
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When people, especially guys, complain about the issues around growing older, my impulse would be to ask them what they've done to explore those issues, research what's going on, talk to (or listen to), share information with people they trust and respect.
Tell Me, What Does It All Mean?
The essence of midlife is a huge paradigm shift. The essence of a midlife crisis is the refusal to change. The only question is, "Will you take responsibility for your life?"
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The midlife question does to your thinking what Einstein's Theory of Relativity did to Newtonian physics. As the quote from The Messiah's Handbook from Richard Bach's novel, Illusions, states, "Everything in this book may be wrong."
The Balance Beam: The Courage to Change the Things I Can
We're appalled when people stand by doing nothing while others suffer, yet, if we haven't got a habit of courage, we're likely to be doing the same thing.
The Balance Beam: Surviving the Utopian Delusion
'Original Sin' is somehow related to humankind's expulsion from the Garden. Utopian social and political thinkers don't believe in it . . . and it shows.
The Balance Beam: Watching Out for The Little Guy
The majority of people seem to want less government 'interference' in their lives, and yet, that's all that stands between them and the tyranny of the majority!
The Balance Beam: Sounding the Fears of the American Male
"Righteous indignation is envy with a halo," read a sign in front of a church some years ago. It's good to look at what outrages us to really see our hidden desires.
The Balance Beam: The Boy Is The Father of The Man
We've been living in an upside-down culture where win-lose was the rule, and win-win was sissified. Now the rules are changing, and it's taking its toll on men.
The Balance Beam: Leading the Cultural Evolution
The universe is neither random nor eternal, but evolving. Humankind evolves with it, and we have appropriate cultural choices to make.
The Balance Beam: Rehabing Truthiness
Stephen Colbert re-invented the word 'truthiness' to refer to things that feel right regardless of the facts. Perhaps his insight is more useful than you might have thought.
The Balance Beam: The Latest Endangered Species — Ethical Leaders
Addressing issues at the first level (problem-solving) is both frustrating and futile. True leaders think in second-level terms about fixing broken systems. Where are they?
The Balance Beam: A Liberal Manifesto
'Liberal' and 'Conservative' are labels that matter: not only in the polling place, but more especially in the decisions of everyday life. One attitude leads to growth, the other to extinction. We have that choice.
The Balance Beam: Compromise or the Subversion of Democracy
The 'tragedy of the commons' not only threatens enlightened organizations, it leaves our whole democratic way of life open to the subversion of the unscrupulous few.
The Balance Beam: Culture, Politics, and Road-Rage
"The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few (or the one)," or so the saying goes. Why do the needs of the few so often subvert the needs of the many?
The Balance Beam: Why the US Can't Compete
There are many reasons why the US is having difficulty competing in global markets these days. One reason is the self-inflicted poverty of cultural nativism.
The Balance Beam: The Human Culture of Conflict
Are we surprised and dismayed at the controversy surrounding the Olympic torch run in the context of China's treatment of the Tibetan minority? Let's start with our own perceptions and attitudes, shall we?
The Balance Beam: Working with Worthless Values
Is it natural and necessary that some people should suffer at the hands of the 'system' or are there alternatives? Les reveals the confused thinking behind some inhumane cultural assumptions.
The Balance Beam: Murder by the Numbers
The consequences of taking theoretical positions are all too often found in concrete reality: wounded flesh and blood. 'Collateral damage' is hardly 'collateral' when it's you that's damaged.
The Balance Beam: Fundamentalism Is Essentially Subversive
Diversity and democracy have a built-in tragic flaw: they must (by definition) accept those who do not accept them. Fundamentalism of all kinds is corrosive to the advancement of human society.
The Balance Beam: Iraq and the US People in Power
We in the United States have reached another milestone in our occupation of Iraq: a sad moment that should cause us to reflect on the cultural forces that created this situation and that allows it to continue.
Ask Auntie: My Staff Is Still Driving Me Crazy!
- Yesterday, Auntie told our reader how to adjust to the annoying behavior of the staff. Today, she suggests how to change the situation. - hlesbrown on 2008-03-14
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