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The Life and Times of Jean Gould

I remember the night that he was killed, my mother had three women over there playing
bridge, and he came home on his motorcycle to tell her that he was going up to Niagara Falls.
And I can remember hanging out the window - there was a window in the living room that was
on this little front porch that we had. I opened the window and was hanging out talking to him
because I needed - something was going on the next day, and I had 20 cents, I think, and I needed
25. So I conned him out of a nickel, and he gave it to me. I can remember after he died - that
was in the days when they had funerals in the home, people were laid out in their caskets at home
- and I had gotten, I don't know whether it was the same nickel, but I owed him that nickel as far
as I was concerned. And when they brought his casket home, I put the nickel in his hand because
I owed it to him and I didn't to have him go to heaven without that nickel. I can remember that
very plainly. And I got very upset with my grandmother because I thought she had moved it. I
had it up on the mantle by that clock that you have out here, and I went to get it and I couldn't
find it. I thought she had dusted or something and knocked it off. But I found it eventually, and
put it in his hand.

But the night that she died, she just - late in the afternoon, she just
opened her eyes. I can see her laying there in bed now. She was in a hospital bed, and she just
opened her eyes. She looked at me. I was doing something for her, and she stared at me, right
fixed, she didn't move her eyes or anything, just stared at me. And I said, "Mother, what do you
want? You want something, don't you?" You could tell by her eyes. And I said, "You want
Dad?" And I gathered that that's what she wanted, so I said, "Well, you just hold on, he'll be
here because it's almost 5:00," and he'd get there shortly after 5:00. So she did. I stayed with
her, and he got home, and he went up and sat with her. And she tried, all that time, from 5:30 on
'til about 8:30 or 9:00 before she died. Her eyes were opened when he got home, and then she
just sort of slipped into unconsciousness. But she had a hold of his hand, and she hung onto his
hand until she died. In fact, I can remember the whole scenario. You know, it really wasn't very
easy. But it always made me feel good because, I mean, that was a cleansing, a forgiveness,
everything. Because she had felt so guilty about my brother. And he, I mean, he held a little bit
of grudge because - he held it against her, I think. He tried not to, but I think he did a little bit.
And she, of course, blamed herself. But I think it was a very good thing in the way she did it. It
wasn't easy, but it was still good, if you know what I mean.

Mr. Cutting, who was the main
partner in Graft, Cutting, and Coit. And he was the one who, when they merged with Pete
Marwick, was the partner for a short time before he retired. Now he didn't retire until he was 70,
but when he retired from Pete Marwick, Robert offered and insisted that Warren take a little - in
fact, we moved our offices so he could have it, have an office. And he had an office, a room in
our suite of offices, just because he was so used to working, so used to being downtown and
involved with people, that he'd just come and go as he pleased. I mean, sometimes he'd be there
all day long, other times he wouldn't be in for two or three days. But he had a place he could go.
And I always felt that he felt that maybe Roger should or would do that for him, and he didn't.
And I think it bothered him. He never said anything, but I think it bothered him a great deal.
Because he would have gone back - he would have gone back just to sit up there and read a book,
rather than sit home and be out of the mainstream. He wanted to see and keep abreast of what
was going on. And it didn't happen. And I think that's one reason retirement was so difficult for
him.

I can remember this incident with David, when he
graduated. They were having a graduation party or something, and this friend of his, his parents
had a place, a cottage down at the lake, and so they were going to go down there and have a
party. And his father let him take the Cadillac, and of course the Cadillac was the pride of our
lives, you know. So he drove down to the lake with some kids in the car, and I don't know
whether it was on the way down there, or they got out and went out to play chicken, and David
left because he was so afraid something was going to happen to that car. So he left and came
home. Which I thought - especially a high school graduation and stuff - I thought that proved
that he showed quite a bit of responsibility.

we had a good time taking her out to school, because we all went. I don't know about David -
yes, he did too, because we stopped at Reno. And Bonnie was very angry because she wasn't 12
yet, and she couldn't go into the casinos. I don't know what they had to be, but she just wasn't
quite up there, and she didn't like that at all. No, that was a good trip. I think we went to St.
Louis first and then flew from there down through Oklahoma to Los Angeles, and if I'm not
mistaken, that's the time we flew into Oklahoma, and there was a fire alert on the runway
because either they had not been able to pull up the landing gear when we left St. Louis, or we
couldn't get it down, I can't remember which. But they were all prepared for a fire. And their
father knew it, I didn't. And I don't know whether the kids knew it either, but we found out
afterwards. We were lucky, I guess. Nothing happened, everything went fine, but they were
ready for it if it did. Which made you feel kinda good. And then we spent a bit of time in Los
Angeles, and I think we rented a car in Los Angeles and then went up to San Francisco and
stopped at Weavers, and then drove over to school.

I can remember one report she had, she was using the
encyclopedia on something - I think it was for history or social studies, one of the two. And she
thought she had to get way involved in the thing, and get deep, deep in this situation, whatever it
was, and her father got very angry with her because she was up practically all night doing it. Of
course, part of that was probably procrastination, waiting until the last minute, but he did not like
that at all, and he got very, very angry. He talked to the teacher, and the teacher said she just
went way too deep into it, she wasn't expected to do that. But that's a good example of Sharon.

And I remember one day, the girl next door that Barbara played with, they were playing
and they went into Sharon and Linda's bedroom. And we had just bought them a new bedroom
suite, and had a big chest with double drawers in the thing, hard maple. It was really very pretty
with a great big mirror. And I don't know where they got the perfume, but they got into some
perfume or cologne someplace, and the bottle got wet, and they set it on top of the chest and
there's a ring there to this day. It was Barbara, and you'd better believe the girls were pretty mad
about that. I think of it every time I looked at it, because Bob and I eventually took over that
furniture.

We didn't have a new car when he came home
from the service, and they were offering Veterans some of these surplus stuff. So he hitchhiked
down to New York, borrowed the money from my father to buy this Jeep, and my mother thought
it was the stupidest thing that ever was, that we should have a crazy old Jeep, lugging a kid
around in a Jeep because David was little. In fact, it was one that just had curtains on the side,
you know. And we drove to Middleport. But to backtrack a little bit, he had to have
transportation back and forth to school, because Niagara University was in Niagara Falls. And so
anyway, we went to Geneva for Christmas when Sharon was little, and she rode in the bed part of
that Jeep with a canvas over her. She was in her basket - we had a great big huge basket that all
the kids were lugged around in until they went in a crib, because it was, oh, that long and that
wide, it was a good big one. And so she was in that basket with all this canvas stuff over her so
she wouldn't freeze to death. Every once in a while we'd stop and make sure she was all right,
getting enough air. (laughs) Oh, my mother had a fit, she thought it was terrible that we would
do a think like that. We got there all right, she survived.

my father had left Helen his insurance. And
Bob and I borrowed that money from her, and paid her so much a month, we paid the interest for
it every month. And she ended up in the hospital, and she needed - she really should have gone
in a nursing home. And I said, we hadn't paid her back yet, and I said, "We'll pay you that
money, put her in a nursing home." "Well, we would be using up all that money then." But the
thing, what really happened was that when we borrowed that money from Helen, it gave her
some income on that money because we paid her more interest than she could get in the bank.
And she said when we borrowed it, and she had it in her will at one point, that we would keep on
paying her interest on that money, and when she died it was going to go back to me because it
was originally from my father. Well, they wouldn't take it to put her in a nursing home, and
before she died, they got another lawyer and said that she had changed her will and needed that
money. So we paid it back before she died. She lived with Betty, the younger one, so they got
her to change her will and had us pay her the money back. Which I guess was all right, and it
was the fact that they wouldn't use it to put her in a nursing home that bugged me, and their
attitude about, you know, they would spend all that money and it would all be gone. At that
point, they didn't know that she had said and put in her will that it was to go to me. And so it
sort of caused a little bit of hard feeling because I didn't think they were being fair to her. They
couldn't take care of her. Dan was sick - it was a real bad situation. I don't know. So we never
were too close after that.

We had a little radio.
There was a small table, about like this, and it had leaves that came up on the end so you could
use it for other things, but the radio was right in the front so it looked like a draw with legs on it.
And the kids used to lay down under that and listen to the radio programs. And they had kids
programs, don't ask me what they were because I can't remember, but I used to do the same thing
when I was a kid. We had this big battery thing, and they had some program on at 5:00 at night
that I always listened to. This is going way back again, and I can remember, they had a contest
for kids to submit names for something, and I can't remember what the name was, but the prize
was a little cocker spaniel - no, poodle - and I was so sure that I had won that dog.

JG: When I didn't win that dog, my heart was broken, because I was at the same stage that
Rosanne is now [11], she wants a dog. And my mother did not want a dog - we didn't have a
dog. And I thought if I won that dog, I would have it because she wouldn't say no. And she
probably wouldn't have, but I didn't win the dog and it was very heartbreaking. I was so sure I
had. I can remember honestly the feeling, and I cried, and I was just heartbroken. But
eventually, we got dogs and I made up for it later on in life.

We went to Canada,
and we went over in the boat to the island. Barbara jumped out of the boat and went tearing up
the dock, and she slipped or tripped or something at the end of the dock, and her toe got caught in
the slats in the dock and she dislocated her big toe. So here she is looking down at this toe that's
sticking right up straight or hanging down, I don't know which, but Robert got there first and he
knew what had happened so he just pulled the thing and put it back in joint. And it hurt terribly
when he did it, but he was the one that had the sense to do it, I probably never could have done it.

I can tell you of another instance that I don't think was very fair, and
Linda remembers this one. We had a round, one of those plastic pools, and I can't remember all
the details, except that the gal next door who had kids our kids' age. The kids had gone over
there after school because I wasn't home, and it had been arranged, it was ok, but Bob had told
the kids that they were not to go in the pool until we were home. Well, Vivian didn't know that,
and Vivian told the kids that they could go in because it was where she could see them, and they
couldn't get hurt in that thing anyway. But it was the fact that Bob told them that they couldn't
go in the pool. He didn't wait to find out that Vivian had said they could go in. He came home,
and Linda was in the water, and he spanked her. And she's always felt that it was very unfair.
And it was when you know all the circumstances, but the point is that he had told her not to go
in, and that's what he knew, and she did it anyway, and that's why he spanked her.

I can remember bringing your
mother up on the grass in front of the house in Middleport and taking down her pants and
spanking her because she was whittling her doll buggy up and down the middle of the street, and
I had told her no, she wasn't to do that. There was a sidewalk that she was supposed to walk on,
but she liked the middle of the street. And I can remember spanking her for that, because I had
told her no, and she just went ahead and did it anyway.

father was home, and
that was bad, that was bad. Well, I remember one time - I can't remember what she had done,
but Robert thought she had lied to him - this was Bonnie. He thought that she lied to him, I
think, but anyway, he had to go to Rochester on business, he was having lunch, and he made
Bonnie ride down - it was a hot summer day - and he made her ride to Rochester with him, sit in
the car while he had lunch with this guy, and I was very upset about that. Bonnie has never
forgotten it, because it was very, very harsh treatment, I thought.

David had a paper route, and it was in the wintertime of course, and there wasn't anybody that
wanted to take over a morning paper route in the wintertime. So Bob and I used to take him back
and forth to Middleport every morning to deliver his papers.

he wanted to die. Because I told you he used to get
himself out of that bed, and he'd say, I'd ask him, "Why do you do that, Robert?" "Because I
want to die! Kill myself!"

he was
always willing to do anything. He used to take my washing, I had the washer in the kitchen. So I
would do a load of wash in the morning, and he would drag it upstairs to the attic - heavy, wet
clothes - hang them up in the attic, and then when they were dry bring them down for me. He
always did that. And he did all the work outside that he could handle, and he used to come in in
the summertime because he had just a little fringe of hair around his ears and around the back.
And he'd come in and there would be little lines of blood streaking all down from his hair line
where the fruit flies would bite him. He was just used to it, didn't bother him. He'd just wipe it
off. Because he liked to be outdoors, he always gardened. He always did all the gardening when
they lived in Geneva. He dug up Grandma's azaleas, she had. No, not azaleas, I'll tell you in a
little while. But anyway, she had these big, big flowers, and they had to be dug up in the fall,
replanted in the spring, he did all of that. all of the marking and everything. He was a very
patient man. The only time I ever got really impatient with him was when I'd come home from
work, he always wanted to be there so he could do anything that I needed done. And if I'd sweep
the floor, he was always there with a dustpan to hold for me to sweep.

Robert
never did. If he didn't collect it, he didn't collect it. And he retired from that business with
people owing him a lot of money.

Lots and lots of people
knew him, and I think that made him quite happy. But he never was a person who - he never
cared about making a lot of money. In fact, he could have made a lot more money than he did.
He never would push people. After we started in the business, we'd have payroll to meet, you
know, this is after a couple three years, and we had people working for us. He'd have a payroll
to meet, and we didn't have any money, and he'd call a client and he'd say, "I need so much."
The client would owe him a sizeable amount of money. He'd say, "I need so much to meet
payroll this week, can you do it?" That's how he functioned. He was satisfied doing it, so, it
was all right. I never wanted for anything really, so I wouldn't complain.

Jim and Jean Bartrum were there, and somebody made
some crack about my being pregnant, and I was standing there serving something, and I said,
"Well, I'll tell ya, if you want to know who's really responsible for it, it's that guy right there!"

he decided he could do it better, and he proved
to himself that he couldn't, so I got back to it again. No, that isn't quite fair because after he
retired and took it over is when he began to slip, and we think that he had all these little bleeders
in the back of his brain a lot longer than anybody ever knew anything about, and it just began
affecting the way he thought and what he did. But he sure as heck couldn't... Some of the
checks, well, he would have died if he'd known what he was doing, really. The checkbook
would be an absolute mess! He'd balance it finally, but he had a terrible doing it. And that was
just so un-Robert, it was awful. But anyway, I finally took that back again and relieved him of it.
We had some great times, I'll tell ya.

Robert had decided that I had so much to
say about how we spent money, and because we never seemed to have any, and he just finally
sitting at the dining room table one night, and he said, "Since you know so damn much about it,
you do it." And he handed me the checkbook and all the bills, and he said, "You pay 'em." And
his favorite expression was, when I would say something as far as, "We've got to do this," or
"We've got to do that," he would say, "And what do you expect me to use, Chicklets?" That's
exactly the way he used to say it. So that's how I acquired the financial handling of the Gould
family

Robert put David up on top of the
refrigerator, sat him up there and let him fall down in his arms, and my mother had a fit! She let
this whoop out of her, and she screamed because she thought he was going to fall. And he got so
angry, and he took David and went over to my mother and he just threw him at her practically,
put him in her arms, and he said, "You take care of him, I'll take care of Sharon!"

I was upstairs with her one afternoon. I was holding Bonnie, and by then Bonnie was
5 or 6 months old, so she turned, I was holding her and she turned and sort of looked at my
mother and put her hands out because she'd remembered her wheeling her around in the
wheelchair, and she wanted my mother to take her. And I said "No, babe, she can't, grandma
can't take you." And she says, "I damn well can!" and she put her arms out and she took her and
had her on her shoulder. But that's one of the last things that she ever did.

I liked the operating room better than any, that was my favorite place to work. But there
again, the operating room is entirely different than it is now because we weren't allowed to scrub
- well, for real simple operations we would scrub, but we weren't allowed.... The woman who
was superintendent of nurses, who ran the nursing school, had no use for the operating room, she
hated it. And anybody who liked the operating room wasn't much nursing material as far as she
was concerned. So there wasn't a great deal of operating room in our curriculum, but what we
did have I liked. And the other thing that made it special for me is because at that point, there
was not too much brain surgery being done. And there was a doctor there who did nothing but
brain surgery, and he had his own scrub nurse and the woman who was the head nurse in the
operating room knew how interested I was, and they got this Dr. VanWagonen to agree that I
could come and stand on a stool on an operating room and watch him operate. He hated students
anywhere around, and he always could tell a student because we wore black stockings. But for
some reason or another his scrub nurse and the head nurse were good friends, and she convinced
him and I went in and watched him operate, do a brain operation. I thought I was pretty special,
I'll tell you. And that made me really want to do a lot of nursing.

I can still see us, we just had this little bitty small
apartment, and we had two couches together in a triangle shape, and they doubled as beds, but
Dordy slept in one and I slept in the other. But we were sitting there because we only had one
leather chair, and we were sitting on it listening to the news when Pearl Harbor was bombed. So
that night, I don't imagine we got much sleep, but we decided to get married.

We always sat in the same pew, right down in front, so the
kids had to behave. I sang in choir for a lot of the years, so Father had all the kids, which is
probably just as well because they behaved much better for him than they did for me.

But I quit going to the.... Well, I told you we went to the Methodist church when we
went to Middleport, and I just - I was baptized by immersion in the Baptist church when I was
twelve, and I never took my membership out of that church in all those years. Even..... I joined
the Methodist church in Middleport, but just by affirmation of faith, not by taking my letter from
the church. But when we moved on the Day Road, the minister, whom I really didn't know, and
was not very well liked in Lockport, came down to see me because we still went to the Methodist
church because that's where the kids were brought up in Middleport and they still went to school
in Middleport. That's where all their friends were. So we kept that one. So anyway, this
minister came down and he told me that he felt that as long as I was now in the area that I should
go to the Baptist church and support the Baptist church, and wold not listen to my reason. So he
told me that he just didn't feel that they should carry me on the rolls of the Baptist church any
more. That's why I was no longer a Baptist.

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JV: Just because you were.....

JG: Because they were carrying me on the rolls as a member of the Baptist church. Well, as far
as I was concerned, I was a Christian of the Baptist Church. I did not agree with that at all. But
he felt that if they were carrying me on that church, I should support it.

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JV: And because you weren't supporting it by going, he felt....

JG: By going there and pledging and giving money to the church, then he didn't want me on the
rolls. Which was not a very Christian thing to do, I didn't think. Because I told him I was proud
of the fact that I had been baptized in that church. And I didn't want to change.

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JV: So you still felt like you were allied with the Baptist faith?

JG: Yes.

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JV: Even though you were going to the church that your family....

JG: Yes. Because like I told you, you can be a Christian, whatever church you go to. But he was
not a very popular minister, he didn't last very long, I'll tell you. I never made a fuss about it,
but I just would not go to that church when we stopped going to the Middleport Methodist
church.

we had friends that were in this group that they went around with.
They had a cottage up in Canada, and the man of the family had a jewelry business in Lockport,
so he would take his wife and his daughter up on a weekend and then just leave them there, and
then he'd go up the next weekend. And we'd gone up there a couple summers, I remember doing
that, and stayed maybe a week or so.

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JV: Up in that cottage.

JG: Yeah. I remember, we did do that.

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JV: Just you and your mom?

JG: Yeah. I don't think my dad ever went up there. But I hadn't thought of that in years and
years and years. But that was something that was a real treat.

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JV: When you went down to the lake, who did you go with? You said it was you and 5 other
kids, or you and four other kids.

JG: Yeah, girls that I went around with. This was the group that I went around with mostly in
high school. They all thought my mother was great, she got along real well with all of them. She
didn't put up with a lot of, I mean, we all behaved ourselves, but she didn't get upset when we
got silly and fooling and laughed and giggled and all that stuff. She handled that pretty good, and
they thought that was great. They were always real happy to have my mother chaperone. The
same thing people say now the mothers of the other kids would say to her, "How do you stand
them?" But she'd say, "They don't really bother me."

JV: Did you guys take any family vacations - I know this was right in the middle of the
Depression, but did you ever get to take any family vacations other than, you know, to your
grandparent's house at Thanksgiving?

JG: Not any really...trips, I believe, because my father was tied up in the restaurant. It was closed
on Sunday, but a lot of his ordering and getting things ready for the following week he had to do
on Sunday because it was the only time he had. He had men who worked for him, but he really
couldn't take too much time away from the store. So that was until '33, well then, the
Depression hit and we didn't have the money to do anything anyway. So the only thing we really
did was we'd - my mother would go down to the lake with us. We'd rent a cottage, because all 5
kids that went would help pay for it, and sometimes my father would come down and stay. But I
don't think of any other.... I remember my mother and father going to New York one weekend,
but that was way back in the '20s when I was little. But for them really to take any extended
trips, I don't think so. My father always - not always, but for several years he went to Canada for
a couple weeks. It was way up over around Michigan, up north of Michigan. He'd go with these
men that were Masons, there were about 5 of them that went up there every year to fish, but they
never took any women, it was all just the men. And my mother just didn't care that much about
going anyplace, I don't think she ever went, really. I can't think of any place that they went. If I
rack my brain, something might come to me, but there sure isn't anything that stood out plainly.

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JV: Maybe it wasn't such a big deal back then.

JG: It wasn't back then. Really, in fact that trip that they took to New York over a weekend was
a big thing, it was a really big thing

JV: No time for clubs? What about church, did you have time to go to church, because you had
to work?

JG: Very seldom. If we worked in the morning, we went to work at 7:00 and worked until 1:00.
And this minister that I told you about, I can't remember for sure but I think he was still in
Rochester - well, I know he was because he was in Rochester when we got married. He was still
there, but I didn't even get to his church because it was way downtown. In fact, it was beyond
downtown, and we just didn't have time. If we did have Sunday morning off, we had to be back
and have our dinner before 1:00 because we had to go on duty at 1:00 and work until 7:00. So
there really wasn't much time for anything. We didn't have much social life. We did
occasionally, there was a conservatory that trained Baptist ministers, or mostly Baptist, I think it
was. I can't remember the name of it, but I'll think of it later. But sometimes we would go out
with some of the guys that went to the.... In fact, Lucy went with two or three of them over there.
I went with one for a while, but it was all very plutonic stuff because they didn't have much time
either. There again, people were still feeling the results of the Depression. It took a long time for
lots of people to get back on their feet, so they didn't have all that much money either, most of
them.

He took me to dinner at a nice restaurant, and I
always thought I loved lobster. And I don't know why he felt so posh, but anyway we went to
this restaurant and I ordered lobster, and you know how they serve lobster? They just broil it and
cut it open and broil it and put bread crumbs and stuff on the top? And it's in the shell, and
you're supposed to just, you know, take these little forks and pick it out. I didn't know what I
was doing, all I did was eat the bread crumbs. I left all the good lobster. (Laughs) It was awful
when I finally learned how to eat lobster.

Bonnie did a teaching project when she was at
UT(?), and she taught at an elementary school in a little small town outside of Knoxville. And
one of the teachers that she was involved with, her name was Lloyd. And Bonnie got talking to
her, and she asked her where she was from, and she came from "some little small town up in
New York, around Buffalo," she thought it was. And sure enough, that's where it was. Her
husband is a lawyer in Knoxville, and he also is on the UT teaching faculty. So I've never met
him, but apparently they go back and forth between... Bill and his wife lived in, oh,
Hendersonville, because it's just south of Ashville, and that is close to this school winter camp
that Carol went to in the last semester in February. I haven't seen them at all since Helen died.
Now, I'm sort of mixed up, aren't I?

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JV: Now what was the relation, there, was that their son?

JG: Yeah, the lawyer was their son. And I did know that they had a son, but I never thought
about it until she ran into his wife. They got a big kick out of it. In fact, I got sort of a kick out
of it because this Mrs. Lloyd, the teacher, told Bonnie that they had gone to Hendersonville for a
weekend to see them and she told her father-in-law that she had run into the daughter of one of
his old girlfriends. And she said I don't think his new wife was too happy about it.

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JV: His new wife?

JG: Yeah, well, this is after he'd married. Helen had died, you see, a couple three years ago.
Helen and I were good friends. That part was all right. But this new wife didn't particularly care
about bringing up his old girlfriends. Who was a widow, incidentally.

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JV: That's funny.

JG: I got quite a kick out of it.

I fell in love with Robert the minute I saw him. In fact, I fell in love before I saw him,
because Lucy Gould Weaver had a picture, his graduation picture when he graduated from the
accounting school at Bentley. She had that when she came in training. No, he sent it to her when
we were in training, and that's when I fell in love with him.

My junior
year in high school I started going with a college kid, so that pretty much solved the problem as
far as my chasing boys and stuff was concerned because he was in the University of Rochester,
and his parents had both died, and he had a guardian in Rochester. He went to the University for
two years, then he decided he didn't want to go any more, he wasn't getting anyplace. He felt he
had - one of my girlfriends' brothers was his fraternity brother, and he came up and spent a
Christmas at their house. And there was Christmas dance, a girl reserve dance, and I didn't have
anybody to go with because the guy that I had asked to go backed out at the last minute. And so
Dorothy got this bright idea that - her brother went with a girl who was a senior, no - she was
away at school but they had been high school sweethearts, and they were gonna go to this dance
just for the heck of it. And Dorothy went with a boy, so she was gonna go. So she cooks up this
deal that I would go to this dance with Harry, or Harry would go with me. And so we went
together from then on until I went into training. And for a year or so when I was in training I
went with him.

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JV: So Harry, what was his last name?

JG: Wardell. And the reason he came to Lockport was because he was interested in YMCA
work, and he got a job working at the Y, and until he got that job, and enough so he could live by
himself, he lived at our house. (My mother had said he could stay there, and my father had six
kids. But my mother said... (tape cut off)

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JV: Ok, now why was he staying at your house again?

JG: Because my mother had said he could stay there until he could find someplace to stay, and he
just sort of kept on staying, and that's when my father didn't like the idea. She just said, well, at
least we know where she is, let's cool it for a bit. It's when she said "Familiarity breeds
contempt, and maybe it will work." And it did, eventually, but I went with him for a long time
after that.