, Gretchen Rubin passes along the advice that every couple should have one indoor game and one outdoor game. In the Internet era, every couple or family should also have one video game they play together (we like Bomberman), one online presence they create together (like a blog or YouTube channel), and one social network where they stay connected (so even if your kids don't want to be your Facebook friend, you can reach them on Google+). If you're using online tools to foster family connection and togetherness, you'll recognize that unplugging is a wishful-thinking alternative to the real work of making Internet time into family time.