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What are the
signs that our fight or flight response has been stimulated (activated)? -
Our respiratory rate increases. Blood is shunted away from our digestive tract and
directed into our muscles and limbs, which require extra energy and fuel for running and
fighting. Our pupils dilate. Our awareness intensifies. Our sight sharpens. Our impulses
quicken. Our perception of pain diminishes. Our immune system mobilizes with increased
activation. We become prepared—physically and psychologically—for fight or
flight. We scan and search our environment, "looking for the enemy."
When our fight or flight system is activated,
we tend to perceive everything in our environment as a possible threat to our survival. By
its very nature, the fight or flight system bypasses our rational mind—where our more
well thought out beliefs exist—and moves us into "attack" mode. This state
of alert causes us to perceive almost everything in our world as a possible threat to our
survival. As such, we tend to see everyone and everything as a possible enemy. Like
airport security during a terrorist threat, we are on the look out for every possible
danger. We may overreact to the slightest comment. Our fear is exaggerated. Our thinking
is distorted. We see everything through the filter of possible danger. We narrow our focus
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We can begin to see how it is almost
impossible to cultivate positive attitudes and beliefs when we are stuck in survival mode.
Our heart is not open. Our rational mind is disengaged. Our consciousness is focused on
fear, not love. Making clear choices and recognizing the consequences of those choices is
unfeasible. We are focused on short-term survival, not the long-term consequences of our
beliefs and choices. When we are overwhelmed with excessive stress, our life becomes a
series of short-term emergencies. We lose the ability to relax and enjoy the moment. We
live from crisis to crisis, with no relief in sight. Burnout is inevitable. This burnout
is what usually provides the motivation to change our lives for the better. We are
propelled to step back and look at the big picture of our lives—forcing us to examine
our beliefs, our values and our goals. -
Today’s
saber tooth tigers consist of rush hour traffic, missing a deadline, bouncing a check or
having an argument with our boss or spouse -
In most cases today, once our fight or flight
response is activated, we cannot flee. We cannot fight. We cannot physically run from our
perceived threats. When we are faced with modern day, saber tooth tigers, we have to sit
in our office and "control ourselves." We have to sit in traffic and "deal
with it." We have to wait until the bank opens to "handle" the bounced
check. In short, many of the major stresses today trigger the full activation of our fight
or flight response, causing us to become aggressive, hypervigilant and over-reactive. This
aggressiveness, over-reactivity and hypervigilance cause us to act or respond in ways that
are actually counter-productive to our survival. Consider road rage in Los Angeles and
other major cities. -
Yes. The evidence is overwhelming that there
is a cumulative buildup of stress hormones. If not properly metabolized over time,
excessive stress can lead to disorders of our autonomic nervous system (causing headache,
irritable bowel syndrome, high blood pressure and the like) and disorders of our hormonal
and immune systems (creating susceptibility to infection, chronic fatigue, depression, and
autoimmune diseases like rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, and allergies.) -
ike tension in our muscles, headache, upset
stomach, racing heartbeat, deep sighing or shallow breathing. Others may experience them
as emotional or psychological symptoms such as anxiety, poor concentration, depression,
hopelessness, frustration, anger, sadness or fear. -
Excess stress does not always show up as the
"feeling" of being stressed. Many stresses go directly into our physical body
and may only be recognized by the physical symptoms we manifest. -
By learning to recognize the signals of
fight or flight activation, we can avoid reacting excessively to events and fears that are
not life threatening. -
Physical safety means getting out of toxic, noisy or hostile
environments. Emotional safety means surrounding ourselves with friends and people who
genuinely care for us, learning better communication skills, time management skills,
getting out of toxic jobs and hurtful relationships -
1) Changing our external environment (our
"reality"). -
Spiritual safety means creating a
life surrounded with a sense of purpose, a relationship with a higher power and a resolve
to release deeply held feelings of shame, worthlessness and excessive guilt. -
cognitive
restructuring, voice dialogue therapy, inner child work, learning not to take things
personally, affirmations and self-parenting. -
Remember that the
natural conclusion of fight or flight is vigorous physical activity. -
When we feel tired and
physically run down, we tend to focus on what’s not working in our lives—similar
to a cranky child needing a nap. It is difficult to be, feel or think positive when we are
exhausted, sleep deprived or physically out of condition. -
Mind
chatter is the endless, restless stream of incomplete thoughts, anxieties and self-talk
which constantly pulses through our minds. -
inner voice
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This quiet place allows us
to move beyond our fears, beyond our anxieties and beyond our strategic mind—into a
clearer understanding and knowing of what is true and loving.
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When we experience excessive
stress—whether from internal worry or external circumstance—a bodily reaction is
triggered, called the "fight or flight" response. -
hypothalamus
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When our fight or flight response is
activated, sequences of nerve cell firing occur and chemicals like adrenaline,
noradrenaline and cortisol are released into our bloodstream. -
Our respiratory rate increases. Blood is shunted away from our digestive tract and
directed into our muscles and limbs -
Our pupils dilate. Our awareness intensifies. Our sight sharpens. Our impulses
quicken. Our perception of pain diminishes. Our immune system mobilizes with increased
activatio -
the fight or flight system bypasses our rational mind
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overreact
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We see everything through the filter of possible danger. We narrow our focus
to those things that can harm us. Fear becomes the lens through which we see the world. -
Our thinking
is distorted -
Our fear is exaggerated.
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Our consciousness is focused on
fear, not love -
our life becomes a
series of short-term emergencies
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