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11 Jan 09
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In other words, what you already believe influences your perception of everything around you. That’s why constant complaining makes you see everything in a negative light, because your subconscious mind tries to make new observation fit with what you already know.
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This of course makes people less likely to take action to improve their situation, because everybody knows it’s doomed to fail anyway.
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Being positive, optimistic and appreciative makes you more open towards other people - no matter who they are. It becomes easy to connect to co-workers in other departments, projects or divisions.
Complaining, on the other hand, makes people gather in cliques with their fellow complainers where they can be critical and suspicious of everybody else.
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15 Jun 08
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17 Aug 07
Jamie Bakerpretty good list. would be good to distribute. but how to counteract defensiveness
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07 Aug 07
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